The First Five Things to Know as You Start Wedding Planning
You said yes—congratulations! 🎉 Whether it was a complete surprise or something you’ve been dreaming about together, getting engaged is a moment worth savoring.
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As the excitement sets in, you may be wondering what comes next. Before you dive headfirst into Pinterest boards or vendor emails, here are five key things we believe every newly engaged couple should know as they begin the planning process:
1. You Don’t Have to Rush Into Planning
Your engagement is a season to enjoy! Take time to celebrate, call your people, and let the moment fully settle in. There doesn’t have to be pressure to have all the answers right away.
2. Determine Your Priorities
Before setting a date or booking anything, talk through what matters most to each of you. Is it having an unforgettable band? An intimate guest list? A specific season or venue setting? Knowing your top priorities will help guide every decision with clarity and intention.
3. Meeting with Engaged Early Will Set You Up for Success
We may be biased—but trust us, this is one of the best first steps you can take. At Engaged Wedding Library, we help couples make confident, informed decisions from the start. From choosing a venue and building a budget to connecting you with the best vendors in Birmingham, we’re here to support you through every stage of planning.
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4. Setting a Budget Doesn’t Have to be Scary
It doesn’t need to be exact—but having a general idea of what you’re comfortable spending (and who might be contributing) is a game-changer. It brings focus, sets realistic expectations, and helps you avoid overwhelm later on.
5. Your Guest List Will Affect More Than You Think
Even if it’s just a draft, starting your guest list early will help you make smart decisions—especially when it comes to venue options, catering costs, and overall logistics. It’s one of the first puzzle pieces that informs everything else.
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Finally- You Don’t Have to Do This Alone
Wedding planning doesn’t have to feel overwhelming or complicated. With the right support and a few thoughtful first steps, you can enjoy this season and make confident decisions along the way.
That’s exactly what we’re here for at Engaged Wedding Library—to give couples a space where planning feels approachable, exciting, and genuinely helpful. Whether you're just starting out or already knee-deep in decisions, meeting with our team is one of the easiest ways to gain clarity, save time, and feel inspired.
Think of us as your personal bride/vendor matchmakers—we connect you with the best vendors suited to your style, budget, and vision. With our expert guidance and curated network, you can feel confident that every detail of your wedding is in the hands of trusted professionals. Let us help you find your dream team and bring your wedding vision to life effortlessly! We’d love to help you make the most of this season—come see us when you're ready!
We hope this information is helpful to you as your get started with your planning! Set up a meeting with the Engaged Girls here for more insider tips!