Who Traditionally Pays for What?
Written by Wedding Planner, Rachael Grammer
When I first meet with brides, I’m often asked for help in determining who pays for what with all the wedding expenses. Traditionally, the bride’s family has always footed the majority of the wedding bill, but depending upon particular circumstances, I now see the groom’s family and the couple themselves paying portions of the wedding costs. Below is a list of traditional wedding expenses and responsibilities. While it’s a good point of reference, it’s not the absolute rule for who must pay for everything. It’s just a good list to start the budget discussions.
GROOM & GROOM’S FAMILY
Pre-Wedding Parties: Engagement Party
Pre-Wedding Parties: Rehearsal Dinner
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Reception: Liquor (Optional if helpful to Bride’s Family)
Groom’s Cake
Photography: Rehearsal Dinner Photos & Video
Ceremony: Marriage License & Officiant
Attire: Groom’s Attire & Accessories
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Flowers: Bride’s Bouquet, Boutonnieres, & Corsages for Mothers & Grandmothers
Gifts: Groomsmen, Bride, & Parents (Optional)
Honeymoon: The Trip & Groom’s Clothing
Post-Wedding: Wedding Night Accommodations
Rings: Bride’s Engagement & Wedding Ring
Stationery: Rehearsal Dinner Invitations
Transportation: Departure from Reception
Optional: Groomsmen Attire, Accommodations, & Ring Bearer’s Attire
BRIDE & BRIDE’S FAMILY
Pre-Wedding Parties: Engagement Party
Pre-Wedding Parties: Bridesmaids Luncheon
Wedding Planning: Wedding Planner/Coordinator
Reception: Venue & All Services (Food/Beverage, Decor, DJ/Band)
Bride’s Cake
Photography: Wedding Photos & Video
Ceremony: Venue Fees, Officiant, & Director
Attire: Bride’s Dress, Veil, & Accessories
Beauty: Bride’s Hair, Makeup & Nails
Flowers: Ceremony & Reception Florals, Bridesmaids Bouquets & Flower Girls
Gifts: Bridesmaids, Groom, & Parents (Optional)
Honeymoon: Bride’s Clothing
Post-Wedding: Day-After Brunch
Rings: Groom’s Wedding Ring
Stationery: Invitations, Announcements & Programs
Transportation: Wedding Party to & from Ceremony and Reception
Optional: Hair & Makeup for Bridesmaids, Bridesmaids Attire, Accommodations, & Flower Girl’s Attire
We hope this information is helpful to you as your get started with your planning! Set up a meeting with the Engaged Girls here for more insider tips!